Tuesday 9 August 2011

最后56天最想跟爸妈一起做的46事件



终于决定回返书店买了这本书。第一次看到这书面和主题,就有好多的细考。果然在翻阅中就让人回想很多的过去及自我反省的效果。这是一本好书!

就像这本书写的“你有没有算过,自己和爸妈相处的时间,剩下多少?

根据统计,一般人平均每周陪伴爸妈的时间,只有2个小时!如果爸妈已经66岁了,以平均寿命79岁计算,13 years  X  52 weeks  X  2 hours = 1352 hours , 1352/24 = 56天。

如果我们和爸妈相处的时间,只剩下56天。你,想要做些什么?为自己和爸妈做个列表吧,你是否也一样有46事件可跟爸妈一起做。当然能有越多就越好,但要确保能做的到。

爱要及时,不要错过最后的美好时光。不要等到最后,才后悔没有说出那句话。。。

Sunday 7 August 2011

Myanmarese refugees


This is my first visit to the Myanmarese refugees in Kuala Lumpur. There is about 500,000 Myanmareses work in Malaysia, legally and illegally, according to the Kuala Lumpur-based Burma Workers’ Rights Protection Committee.
 
There was about 70 of us gathered in front of the Church in the morning, then we moved to the low cost flat where the Myanmarese refuge. We were asked to form a few small groups and each group assigned to one unit.





The moment I went in the apartment, it is small, about 400 sq ft. Each apartment consists of three bedrooms, one bathroom, one living room and one kitchen. Each bedroom is occupied by one Myanmarese family, and each family has six to eight members. In other word, there are 24 people staying in a place of 400 sq ft. Although the house is so crowded, it is well kept and tidy.




The Myanmareses are friendly, they are willing to share their stories with us. We had a huge communication barrier where they understand minimum of Malay language. Their husbands go out to earn a living and the wives stay at home to take care of the children. They hope that their husbands will get a good job and have a better paid. It is risky to work for a heartless employer because the employer might ask the local authority to detain them after they have performed their job in order to save cost.
 

Gather in front of their school which located in basement car park

 
 
After the visit, I made some sharing with my friends. The response is not so positive. One of the responses I have got is “Why do we want to help them? Our country crime rate is increasing, one of the reasons is because of them. They shouldn’t have come to Malaysia, they should bear the consequences.”

From the perspective of my friend, it is not wrong for him to think in this way. In my point of view, as a human, we should treat every human with love and mercy. They are like some of our friends who look for a job in developed country in hope of having a better living. As for the Myanmarese refugees, the main intention is to seek for freedom and liberty. These people travel from Burma to Malaysia by bus, truck, or even walk for months with a hope that they will be freed from force/slave labour and human trafficking. Unfortunately for some of them, Malaysia may not seem as good as what they thought. They wish to go home but it is impossible for they do not have the funds and in fear of detention by local authority, despite having received a refugee card from UNHCR (UN Refuge Agency)
 
A little help from you is a huge gift to them. Have mercy! God bless.